Stoic advice: what about the toxicity of public discourse?

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Anger, one of the characters in the movie Inside Out

D. writes: what would be a Stoic response to the divisiveness that just seems to be increasing evermore in our society right now? How to cope with the toxicity of exchanges between people?

This is a darn good and very timely question, and the Stoic answer is at once very straightforward and yet incredibly difficult to implement. First off, let’s review what we are talking about here. The United States, as is very clear for the world to see, has been going for a while now through a phase of increasingly bitter political and social polarization, a phase that has led to a sharp and seemingly irreconcilable divide between “blue” and “red” America. We now have a President who is publicly sexist and racist, and has enabled some who feel the same to say and do things in public that would have been inconceivable until a very short time ago. On the other side (which, full disclosure, I by no means see as “equally” at fault), we have calls to engage in behavior demeaning toward one’s political opponents, such as booting them out of restaurants and other public spaces. Moreover, many on the left do subscribe — openly or not — to the infamous comment made by candidate Hillary Clinton about the “basket of deplorables.” There is anger in abundance, and essentially no dialogue, just shouting past each other.

The situation isn’t that different in several other parts of the Western world. In the UK the Brexit issue has split the country, and the rhetoric has been as nasty as ineffective, with soon to materialize very serious consequences for the British people. In Italy a coalition of a populist movement and an extreme right-wing party is now leading the country and, just as in the US, enabling racism, misogyny and bigotry. That said, the other side just doesn’t know what to do to meaningfully and constructively counter this trend, so they either disengage or shout back, to the detriment of the Italian citizenry. I’m less familiar with the situation elsewhere, but it’s clear even from a cursory look that populism and nationalism are on the rise, and that we keep being distracted from engaging in very real and very serious problems such as global poverty, widespread injustice, economic inequality and, of course, the big elephant in the room: irreversible environmental damage.

It should be clear from the above where my own political allegiances lie, though I do think of myself as politically independent. But that is not the point. There are reasonable people on both sides, and a lot of irrationality and anger across the spectrum. And it is reason that might help us here, not mindless slogans and deep seated hatred.

The Stoic response should be, I think, at two levels: societal, and personal. Let me start with the first one, because there is an unfortunate tendency both inside and outside of Stoic circles to think of the philosophy as self-centered and politically quietist. It is no such thing:

Or consider this:

And this:

The first quote reminds us that a major reason for our existence, according to the Stoics, is to work with others to make this a better world. The second one is about the fact that we all have roles to play in society, and that we should play them at our best, again to be helpful to the human cosmopolis. And the last one again returns to the theme of justice, while at the same time recapitulating the Stoic argument that affection for others comes natural to the human animal, though it needs to then be further reinforced and expanded by the use of reason.

We need to keep this background in mind, as Stoic practitioners, because it is too easy to forget that Stoic philosophy is inherently cosmopolitan, which means that we have a duty to struggle to overcome divisions and reach out to fellow human beings. Remember, they are misguided, not evil.

Let me now move down from the social to the personal level, which more directly addresses your question. Anger, of course, is out, Stoically speaking. Unlike Aristotle, who thought that a bit of anger is actually good, the Stoics were adamant that anger is temporary madness. Even when it seems justified, say as a reaction to injustice, it quickly overwhelms our reason, leading us to say or do things we are likely to regret:

The Stoics were clear-eyed when it came to human behavior, as they fully expected pettiness, anger, and even hatred. Which is why Marcus famously reminds himself of this:

Notice the bit about not being injured by such behavior, and not to let oneself being dragged into ugliness. It’s a pretty simple precept, really, but very difficult to practice. I basically recite the above to myself every time I open my Twitter or Facebook accounts…

And here is another reminder I find very useful:

This is the best advice I can give you, and which I constantly give myself. Marcus is saying that other people think that they too have reasons for what they say or do. And just like you are convinced of being right, so are they. Ah, but they are wrong!, you say. Perhaps. But then it is incumbent on your to find the patience to teach them. Of course, Marcus wasn’t naive, he knew perfectly well that even the best teacher can fail if the other person isn’t willing to listen and critically re-examine his beliefs. Which is why he wrote:

It’s powerful stuff. In two sentences, we are reminded that we exist to be helpful to others (Stoic cosmopolitanism), that we are capable of deploying reason in order to convince others that their way of seeing things may need to be revised, and that if we fail to do so then we still have the option of enduring their behavior with patience. Just one caveat: given my discussion of Stoic justice above, enduring others does not mean refraining from acting in order to stop them if they are committing injustice.

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